I've been dating a guy for a couple months now and when we first started dating he said he's looking for a relationship and wants things between us to go well. I sort of want to ask if he's talking to other girls not to get angry or yell just simply to see if he's still looking for other girls so I know how invested to get at this point. First question is: if a guy is still searching for other options does that mean it's already doomed or just what girls and guys do until they have the exclusive talk?
Second question: how early is too early to bring up the conversation of being exclusive?
I know this all sounds a bit strange.. I've been cheated on in the past and don't want to invest too much if it's a ticking time bomb.
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I don't know about this exclusivity thing... I always figured by the third date you were kind of into one another, so I would never be dating anyone else after that in behidn the scenes.
Call me old fashioned, but I can't juggle women like they are objects until I figure out which one I want to date. I like to give 100 percent to that one person.
If it does not work out, then I don't want it to have to tell a girl that I am not interested in her because I have someone in the background.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE