I'm so new to dating, I was in a rship for many years and now I'm single and dating. One thing that I've learned is that when someone tells you who they are, pay attention to them! So with this guy, there are a few things that he's ssid that make me go hmm, but this comment in particular rubbed me the wrong way. I am Caucasian, he is Mexican. He told me he has a confession to make. Hmm, ok? He said that he "sometimes makes fun of white people, but no worries, mainly white men" I don't know what he's trying to tell me. I do know that he has hardly any Caucasian friends. His comment made me uneasy because it was random and I'm not sure why he felt the need to tell me this. I wonder how he would feel if I said that about Mexican women? Is this a red flag? I feel like he was warning me, but in a nonchalant way.
Most Helpful Guy
Of curse it's a big deal. Racist is Racist. In order to be a racist you have to have a serious lack of empathy and probably a measure of hate as well to an entirely arbitrary group of people, is that really someone you want to build your life with? or trust your heart too?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Hey, I make fun of white people too, and I'm white. He might just be making sure you're aware, just in case it's something you'd get offended at. But y'know, jokes about white people can honestly be pretty accurate, and they really don't harm anyone, especially on the level that jokes against actual minorities harm people.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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