I am dating a black guy, and my dad is racist. Should I tell my boyfriend about this?
we have been dating for 1 month and became official last week (he asked for it). Right now everything feels perfect and the thought of losing him really really hurts. Though my dad is racist, his attitude doesn't influence how i feel about my boyfriend. i like him for who he is.
Would guys wanna know about something like this in advance? would knowing such fact make a guy feel that he can't be with the girl?
Just a note: i am not planning revealing to my dad anytime soon. Plus, i live in a different city than from my dad so the two probably will never meet each other!
i asked this yesterday, but i forgot to include important details; so here i am posting the Q again!!!
big thank you to those who commented yesterday, really appreciate that!
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I think it is important that you tell him, yeah. Because he knows best how to keep himself safe from people like that and what his boundaries are with regards to people like that - you don't want to put him in danger, physical or mental, by letting him think he's safe around your family when he isn't, you know?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE