Most Helpful Girl
I personally get really flustered when both girls and guys compliment me. Like, in my head I'd even rehearse things I'm supposed to say after getting a compliment, but I don't know, compliments just always catch me off-guard.
Here are some things that run through my head when I get complimented:
-oh shoot, is he/she being sarcastic? What am I supposed to say now? F*ck it I'll just smile. A smile's safe.
-does this person really mean it? Am I supposed to thank him/her? But then they'd think I actually think of myself as pretty, I don't want to sound obnoxious. F*ck it I'll just say "thank you".
-oh gosh this person is so good-looking, he/she prolly has seen better and doesn't actually mean it. F*ck it I'll just return the compliment. Oh gosh did I actually just tell him "you too"? Wtf is wrong with me?
.. so personally, if I don't return a compliment it's not because I'm being obnoxious or I don't feel as if you don't deserve one, I just get really flustered and nervous whenever people compliment me :P I don't know if that's the case for other girls (I know some just feel as if other people are obligated to tell them just how pretty they look) but I hope this helps :)
Most Helpful Guy
i1127.photobucket.com/.../...f.com-gif-maker_3.gif LOL because they're not expected too -_- think about it. We as guys are told to not only approach a girl, but to shoot her a compliment, then say the right words at the right time... while them, on the other hand, are expected to sit there, look cute, and giggle HAHAHH
That is why most guys don't say "Oh you have nice ___ also" call my bluff LOL