Most Helpful Girl
No one will use you unless you allow them too. Guys can be so dramatic over this.
And yes I would date a guy like that just cause I'm shy myself and confidence isn't that important in comparison to personality and compatibility.
Most Helpful Guy
I'd keep my money a secret if I were you. "Hi, I'm shy and not very confident but I have lots of money"... She be like "eeeexcellent!"