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I think the night to remember was the heat of the moment, but in the cold light of day he had time to process everything that happened before and is still freaked out.
If I was him, I'd be afraid to commit - not because of commitment, but because your head seems to all over the place. Opening his heart to that vulnerability a second time, only for you to have another freak out and hurt him again? I'd be trepidatious to say the least.