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If I were single , and had no kids , of course I'd want someone who had the same.
but if I truly cared for that person I'd consider neither baggage (marriage or kids) especially if they were divorced.
If the person had one kid I could look past it.
But a whole football team (a lot of kids), would probably be a turn off for me no matter what.
If I lacked the experience of motherhood, that would scare me away.
What I also consider baggage would be someone who is currently struggling with an addiction of some sort.