4. First Message - Early April. I explained I wanted to know how she was doing. We talked, interruptedly, for two days. The conversation was good, she was very friendly. In the end I said I enjoyed having talked to her and she replied the same, and that I could leave a message anytime I wanted (but I think this was her being nice to make me feel free to text her again the next time I wanted to know from her - like, presumably, in two months or so)
5. Second message. 5 weeks later (I wanted to text her sooner, but I was afraid doing it would come off weird). I asked her if , the weekend before, she had gone to this city, she said "no, why?" and I said I tought she might have attended this classic music event there. I was trying to spark a convo about something of her interest (she's a violinist). And then I asked her some questions about that. This conversation went just ok. Her answers were relatively short. It was a bit late and perhaps, the way I pose the questions doesn't give much room to expand. In the end I reminded her to tell mum she loves her the next day (as it was Mother's Day). She smiled and sent kisses.
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Unfortunately it doesn't sound very hopeful. You've made effort here and she hasn't really responded in any manner more than polite. Until now, when it seems she's actively ignoring you. She responded quickly to the other messages, yeah? Now this is taking days to respond to? Sad to say, but I think your best bet is to cut your losses now and not write again. Let her go and find someone who at least has the decency to politely decline. It's not fair to leave you hanging like that, very disrespectful. Good luck, you'll find a nice lady who will reciprocate your interest, don't worry. :)0
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