Most Helpful Guy
I have dated an athlete and she was really gorgeous, everything in a woman I want look wise. It was pretty stressful because guys hit on her all the time and she was surrounded by guys, all athletes. I'm not athletic to say the least. I was like "I'm with a hot chick and it's cool, but enough of the damn friendly flirting already!"
The main problem was our completely different personalities, her life revolved around sports and mine around IT. It was good while it lasted though, and the sex was amazing, best I ever had. Looks alone can make it really good.
Most Helpful Girl
I would try to push the thoughts out of your head. I dealt with the same thing in the beginning of my five year relationship with my now boyfriend. He's a definite 10 and a very good talker. Girls crumble at his feet. At first it was irrititing and made me insecure, thinking he was going to leave me for one of the various women drooling all over him. But he didn't. So now, when it happens, him and I can look at each other and laugh at some girls forwardness. Don't sweat it. If he didn't want you then he wouldn't be seeing you. Just try to remember that. I know its hard. Trust me, I've been there. But it will be worth it in the end.