Most Helpful Girl
Dating sites are not for people who are sensitive. You have to have thick skin cause people will judge you more harshly because well, they can. There's no pressure and you are essentially allowed to be picky because it's about your needs and what you are looking for. I think guys just find it easier to lower than standards and get desperate so they message any girl. I don't think it's wise. I've tried dating sites too and it has never really worked for me either. Rather focus on meeting people in real life.. it's actually a lot easier.
Most Helpful Guy
Online dating is just for women to stroke their egos. Women apparentlly need this constantly, judging by the way most act. I feel your frustration. It's a new world we live in where women treat dating as a game and think they can fulfill their ridicules fantasy of finding the perfect guy. But most will end up unhappy because they never learn to work a less than perfect relationship into something great. By the time they realize Prince Charming is not who or how they imagined, it's too late.