Most Helpful Guy
If he wanted to marry you. . . by now, he would have married you. This guy is saying things because he thinks he knows what you want to hear, but he is not being sincere with you. Perhaps he is not capable of being sincere with himself. Forget every word that he ever said to you and look at how he treats you; is this what you really believe is love?
You should follow your heart into a relationship but follow your head out of a relationship. I expect you to say that you love him, but that comes from the heart what does your head tell you to do?
Most Helpful Girl
Because she is a mother and doesn't want to accept the fact that her son is a grown man and can make his own choices. She still wants him to look up to her because that is her child. You will never be able to get around this until you eventually make this woman like you. Because clearly she doesn't, especially if she can say that you are the reason he isn't making his own choices. I deal with the same thing. Been with my boyfriend for 5 years. His mother hated me for the first 3. Its gotten easier now because she realizes that I am looking out for his best interested and not my own. Good luck.