It has been hell finding a girl to spend time with and have a meanful relationship with: I joined POF. com which is very depressing. The 1st girl I talk to on there talked to me for 3 months and the day before the 1st date she cancels and said she wants to be friends even though we were still friends on facebook I saw that she chose another guy over me. The next couple years on there was girls leading me on to build their ego. Next was a girl who I had a crush on in high school. She went through a very bad breakup so I tried to cheer her up. We did go on a date and she said she liked spending time with me that day. When I asked her to consider me for a relationship she said she doesn't want to date for a LONG while. Last was a girl I recently met. She seemed she was nice and pretty but one problem she is hangs around with drunks and beggers who beg for money and drug users. Most of the time I spend with her is when she's with those people. She said if I dont like hanging around them then I can't talk to her anymore. All the girls I try to introduce myself in public are very shallow every time I say hi to them. Can I find that one special girl in my lifetime or did I get cursed of being single forever?
Most Helpful Girl
You are only 20 haha. It's not like you're 50. Love doesn't just happen and sometimes you go through lots of bad dates/experiences before you find the right girl.
Most Helpful Guy
I'm sure you can but it's unlikely that the first girl you get will be "the one" that will last forever. If you can relax a bit more about the whole thing I'm sure you will have an easier time and will show a different vibe to girls around you.