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This is a very unhealthy relationship. It is one thing to start acting differently at random times because sometimes people just go into these "off" phases and need space to re-coop. However, this guy seems to want only to control you. "Put you in your place"? Really? He doesn't deserve to have a female devoted to him if this is the way he looks at you. Love is not about changing someone and making them do absolutely everything for them. Like I said, this is a very unhealthy relationship. How long have you been with him? My boyfriend did this a few times in the beginning of our relationship and I found out later on that he was actually cheating on me. Getting nudes from other females and talking to them 24/7. I mean he stopped because I found out and called him out on him. He hasn't done it sense and it has been 4 years since that point. However, I would never want anyone to go through what I did. I had to physically go through his phone and figure it out myself because he lied to me about it. And when I saw that stuff, it took such a toll on me, my confidence and my ego. I wouldn't wish that feeling on my worst enemy. I would try to look into if he is cheating on you. But don't go through his phone like I did with my boyfriend. It was not a pretty sight. But it would explain why your boyfriend all the sudden is on his phone all the time.
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