Unattractive men in the dating game? Not only are most initially unattractive men are initially unattractive to attractive and average looking women but also initially unattractive women and the majority of initially unattractive women would rather be a hookup/fwb with a guy that has some physical attractiveness than to date/be in a relationship with a initially unattractive guy, even if the woman herself is initially unattractive. One may argue, "oh they can have sex, but its almost impossible for them to get into a relationship" That's still better than a initially unattractive guy. Not only is it 99% impossible for him to get a date, its impossible for him to get sex on top of it (unless he has money) unlike the initially unattractive woman.
Now I believe that the reason why a lot of initially unattractive women are disatisfied with being a hook up/fwb is because they take getting to have sex for granted. Its human nature to be ungrateful to things that are obtainable like the majority of people in western countries take having access to clean water, food, shelter etc.
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That's a lot of assumptions. I don't know if a generally un/attractive or average woman would want to be in a sexual relationship with a guy who is cute rather than date an unattractive guy. I think a lot of women would choose NEITHER. But if it's your opinion, then I simply disagree.
I don't think it makes things worse unless if they're not attracted to each other. A guy that is seen as generally unattractive may be beautiful to some woman and vice versa. That's the great thing about subjective attraction--not everyone agrees about what's attractive.
I also disagree about what it being human nature to be ungrateful. If you have no experience as to how bad it is to LACK those things, how would you be grateful in the first place?0