Why do women or some women care so much about being Facebook official? In regards to being boyfriend and girlfriend. It doesn't even change anything. Why do we have to care so much about what other people think? Do you guys and girls know why?
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What's generally recognized--at least where I'm from--is if a guy is really into his girlfriend, he will declare her to everyone and openly say "This is my girl".
FB is simply another way to do that. So if he doesn't do it yet he's very active, that can lead to miscommunication by women who want to get with him. He may even be leading a double life. Or he could simply not want to post it there because it's more private and he doesn't want people to know (who are on his FB for some reason).
But I think this is the reason why a lot of women are bothered (For the record, my sister is engaged and I don't think her fiance ever had her as being in a relationship with her. She simply says that she's "in a relationship").1