I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and we love each other very much. I admit that I do have several guy friends that like me but I have no interest in them whatsoever. sometimes they would keep in touch with me (I've known them since high school or middle school) and want to catch up and meet up. There was this one point where one of my guy friends who I know likes me, wanted to go to a movie together, he was a great friend and so I wanted to also catch up with him. But I canceled the last minute and made up an excuse because I felt like it was wrong. (This was going on while I was with my current bf).
Anyway how would you feel about this? Also, would you let your girlfriend go out to a movie with her guy friend that likes her? (When she truly only sees him as a friend)
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Look, the thing is. It depends how much i know my girlfriend loves me and how much i trust her. But either way, i would explain to her not to lead on guys or give them hope like that. I mean put yourself in the other guys' situation, it's not cool. Going with someone to the cinema usually means something to them. Unless the guy is super extroverted and realllly considers u as a friend and has met your boyfriend then i see no problem with going with him at all. But him liking you and planning to have something going on with you then is not cool cause he'l just be getting hope for nothing and will make things just get weird.1