I have been dating this guy for almost five months, and I have noticed that I do a lot for him. Like cook dinner, give back rubs, foot rubs, try new things in bed (which usually turn out good ;) ) , spend more time at his house than my own ( almost every afternoon), and recently doing his nails for him. I really like him and he acknowledges that I do a lot, but I have to ask for him to give me a back rub (and feel like he half-asses it). He does treat me to dinner and I feel like he does bring a lot to the table, but I worry I am giving away too much too soon and he will start taking for granted the things that I do, and it won't get me to my end goal which is to be a wife ( not that I'm in a rush I just know he is what I have been looking for). As a guy what do y'all think? Should I do less or demand equality or am I over thinking?
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Relationships are all about communication so work on that a little to improve, but I do not think you are giving away too much. If you a feel like you are doing too much then pull back a little and wait until he asks you to do those things for him. Obviously do not stop doing everything and just completely pull away or he will think something is up1
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