My boyfriend and I have been going out 4 years. He is 28 and I'm 24 whenever we see his family. His mom step DSD and two brothers. Hus one brother who is 26 constantly rags on him and it pisses me the heck off. I told my boyfriend that it really bothers me that he basically allows himself to get insulted. Well the one time we were over there and I obviously very jokingly said something busting on my boyfriend and his mom got all pissy saying it bothered her. I was like are you serious Andrews brother says rude hurtful things all the time that is obviously not a playful loving joke but his own girlfriend makes an obvious playful joke and its not OK for me? I didn't say that in front of his mom but I made sure to voice my opinion about it to my boyfriend in the car on the way home. He agreed with me and said his brother has always been a dick to him and he knows deep down he has to stand up for himself. Thoughts?
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She loves her sons, even when they act like bullies to each other. She may even favor the bully over your boyfriend. You however are an outsider, so you aren't loved or given the protection of saying mean things about her sons, even if it is the son she cares least about.0
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