I know a girl might not mind being approached by guys but isn't it sometimes a waste of time? I sometimes feel like if a certain girls found out I wasn't attracted to them they would be relieved. Should people have that mindset or could everyone miss out on people by doing so. Is assuming a beautiful woman would be happier with a more handsome man a good mindset or just silly? I know right it's self esteem but I feel like I'm blocking of certain girls from a better opportunity. Like she could find a guy just as nice and could treat her just as good as me but he would be better looking. If that's possible wouldn't she be happier? I didn't pursue my last crush because she was moving. I thought that no matter the outcome us being in a relationship would make her moving harder. Isn't this the same idea. If you really care you'll want the best for them. This doesn't mean I won't talk to the most beautiful girl in the room. It only means I won't try to force a connection. Of course if we instantly have a connection and get along I'd ask her out. But if I have doubts or wonder if she could be happier with someone else isn't that normal. This is all because of the idea leagues. Should they stay or go?
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Leagues are stupid. I never got dates growing up but was told years later after HS by one of the guys he always thought I was prettier (than my best friend that got a bunch of dates). Of course I was married by then. The guy I married never got dates either But, I find him attractive. if they like you then they'll date you, I don't think it matters how someone looks. Only vain people care about that.0