Im sorry if i sound shallow..
From what I've seen, i know that it's hard to have a relationship with anyone in the military
But i see it as growing from someone in the service to become stronger, and i have a lot of respect for them. I'd feel protected and safe. I feel like not a lot of women want to date military guys because it's too hard to do.
That's why it seems a lot of these guys become 'emotionally numb' because they have no one there for them. Where can i find military guys? please dont tell me im a tag chaser. I've never had a boyfriend in the military, and i want to try it out.
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I'm not saying that you sound shallow but I'm not sure if you're ready for a full on military relationship. Many of us are gone A LOT, letters, phone calls, care packages and what not help but are never enough. I think you should probably look for someone who is your type that just happens to be in the military. Feeling protected and safe is one thing that you SHOULD already have before entering a relationship because when the guy comes back you need to realize he's been gone doing intense shit only to come back and things change people change and the whole adapting back to normalcy is a hard thing. Sometimes you need to be the rock and be able to draw out the feelings that's been cooped up inside for a year/months. Other than that I don't know what else to say.2