what would you do if you were in such a situation and for whatever reasons couldn't have any success at dating where you lived or maybe had bad rumours going around about you that may or may not even be true . or you had been accused of something and couldn'[t get the girls to date you because of those accusations .
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Regardless of the opportunities to date individuals, especially in the town where I live. I would not move to another town and throw away my hard efforts for a successful future. I have my family, friends, school, work, and other leading priorities here. All of those priorities, significantly, outweigh any opportunity to meet new women.
With bad rumors, I wouldn't necessarily try to "make people believe otherwise"; however, I would try to show that I am not that individual anymore and I would start by putting "my best foot forward". Meaning if people always thought of me as a player that hurts women, I would stick solely to being a friend with women rather than pursueing a relationship for a while. This in turn would give me some extra time to focus on my priorities like work and school.