Well I have been dating this guy I met online for 2 months and everything has been going absolutely great we talk all day everyday, date etc. It is not that long but things moved fast. We see eachother regular and have met eachothers children and family (first man I have ever introduced to my children, huge step). We have talked about exclusivity and I made it clear to him I expect that from him or else I am not interested in dating him. We talked as recently as last night about this. Now, curiosity got the best of me and bc things are going well and I dont want to get hurt I looked up his username online and found him on another website as ACTIVE and ONLINE literally hours after I left his house. Naturally, im fuming. I have a few questions to ask. Should I call him out on this next time we hang out? or should I casually ask him if he is on any sites to see if he lies to me? If I ask and he tells the truth I plan to let him know that is not ok with me and go from there. If im going to be exclusive and committed I refuse to have someone checking out the field on the side. As soon as we became intimate and the feelings came I ended the online dating without 2nd thought as I always give 100% to whomever im seeing and expect the same. How do I handle this? I also dont want to seem crazy bc I looked him up lol, but hey Im not going to get played for a fool.
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Are you divorced? Sounds like you been desperate for someone to take care of your children (sorry if i offended you)
Was it you or he opening the exclusivity talk? If he doesn't respond in a clear way, chance is he doesn't have the idea of settling down with you that quickly. Usually it isn't enough to know a person well enough for 2 months, should be more than that.0
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