I met a guy online and we have been dating for 1 month now. We've been out on 5 dates. Since the first date, he's been very good about texting me either every day or every other day. He travels for work, so in that month, we've only seen each other 5 times. I'm wondering how long it will take for him to want to be exclusive with me, if he even wants that. He was divorced before and I think he is really looking for his counterpart. Guys- how many dates does it take for you to decide and what is your thinking process during that time?
How long does it take for a guy to want to be exclusive with a girl?
What Guys Said 4
I don't date multiple girls so and tend to put all my eggs in 1 basket sooo I'm already all hers but I guess I don't really make it feel that way.0
I usually leave it to the girl to bring up. The point of ''the talk'' is usually to address exclusivity and/or official titles, both of which are usually more important to the girl.1
That sounds like enough dates to me. Any person should be able to make that call by the 5th date. Things are either promising or not promising. You might as well ask him if he wants to be exclusive.0
What Girls Said 1
Ask. Its not pushy. Just bring it up. Like so where is this going. Where are we heading. I was wondering if we are exclusive. It's not pushy; it's called just trying to figure out what you are and where you are. Be causal just say you wanted to just know what you guys are no pressure. Making sure you are on the same page0
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