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Do you think it is as easy as pinpointing one or a few things? I am just curious.
Based on experience, I was with my ex wife for just over 25 years, you click or don't. During the time I have been dating I have had a number of women that I match up perfectly with on paper. but when we meet "IT" is just not there. I thought it was me. I didn't want the divorce and I thought that I just had too big of a wall up and I would just never be able to trust another woman again. Within 10 min of meeting the woman I am currently dating and very much in love with, that wall was gone. Why? I don't know. As soon as I saw her in person my heart just defrosted. She didn't say anything different then the other women. We just had that spark. You cannot quantify it.0