My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 months now and while I can appreicate that over time you become more comfortable around your significant other I find it strange and concerning that my girlfriend still "nervous" around me and is hestitant to be compeltely nude with the lights on around me; also doesn't like me to touch her breasts during sex or any other time. She has no problem (nor do I) anytime or any place she touches me; I feel 100% comfortable around her. She says she is this way because I make her "nervous" and she doesn't like her body; but it seems to only be her breasts that she is guarded about.
It's been 4 months and I feel like at this point she should at the very least be comfortable with me touching her anywhere (at least during sex). Is this "nervousness" and hestiancy to completely open up to me a bigger sign that she's just not completely into me or am I just reading too much into this?
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Just give her some time. This is probably her first time or she probably has had a bad experience from a previous relationship. Just respect her and maybe along the way, she'll get comfortable. And also don't rush things. Everything will take it's course.0