I broke up with him about a month ago because he has commitment issues and is afraid of being in a serious relatonship. And everytime we got close he would push me away and i got sick of it and broke up with him even though i didn't want to break up with him. He has a lot of issues he has anixety and gets depressed often and is terriffied of rejection and getting hurt in a relationship. He then remvoed as a friend on fb. Then 2 weeks after break up he texted me and said he hates not seeing my face and we texted bu then i didn't hear from him.2 weeks passed again and yesterday he texted me we texted most of the day and today i haven't heard from him. Why is he doing this?
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Hate to say it, but this guy sounds like a bit of a mess, and a suitable case for treatment of some kind. It's highly likely that you will never understand him unless he gets help. You sound like a wonderful woman, yet he doesn't want to reach out, grab hold of you, and never let go. Instead, when he did have you in his life, he had intimacy issues. Not good. He's also passive-aggressive in actions, which he illustrated by unfriending you. To top it all off, he appears to be bi-polar, with pretty severe, self-destructive, and life disrupting behavior swings. Really, it has to be said straight out, he's a trainwreck. Plain and simple.1