Should I ask him out?

So I like this guy and he's been showing some signs that he may like me-
-he always stares at me
-when he talks to someone else, he'll pay attention to me instead
-he smiled at me and it was the happiest smile I've ever seen
-he gets into my personal space
But we never talk and I asked his friend what would he say if I ask him out and he said he'll most likely say no.
I'm conflicted about what should I do. I really like him and I want to ask him out but I'm scared I'll get shot down.
What should I do?

  • Ask him out
    Vote A
  • Don't ask him out
    Vote B
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Do it.
    Some guys are shy, and welcome an advance.
    Worst case, he says no (this time) and you can move on.
    You never know until someone asks.
    Be a little flirty, then ask him when he is being receptive.(talking or looking at you)


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What Guys Said 3

  • Yeah ask him out

  • guys friends typically don't know much about their friends relationships (from my experiences), so i wouldn't really take what his friend said for much worth. i would ask

  • Don't be selfish... Ask him out... Reduce ego


What Girls Said 2

  • What's the worst that could happen? He says no and tells everyone that you asked him out.. If his reaction is that childish, he's not even worth it.
    I would say, be more flirty (touchy, smiley etc) than usual and see how he reacts, and then ask him out if he responds positively.
    Good Luck :) :)

  • You should ask him out.