me and my boyfriend have a son together. and have been together for two years. and when I found out about all this it was from his girlfriend and not from him. I took him back but I'm confused I don't know if to forgive him and m ok move forward or let him go. I know that he did this to hurt me and his intentions with that girl were only for fun and for one night.
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Being you both have history together here, dear, a 'Son together' to boot, it's going to be hard to Ignore him Completely or even To... Move on Completely. If you make a choice to part ways, then Visiting rights would need to be discussed.
If he pulled this little 'Only for fun and for one night' Once, there is no telling if he may do it again. If he hurt you Once with this No brainer, then what kind of retaliation would he dare to perform for some other reason of the season?
In my book of blunders, he can never really be trusted again, nor will it be easy as pie to forgive or forget. It's always going to haunt you, you won't get Past it and even if you did... He could end up either spiteful again or even worse... Getting a 7 year inch just to Cheat because this time, he doesn't have a sour ball about anything, just wants to have his cake and Eat it two.
If you decide to give him another try, don't wear your heart on your sleeve, He has to Prove himself, Not Expect you to just let this slide and your job now Is... To watch him like a little fly.
Good luck. xx0