girls, is it okay for a guy to ask you out in a text?
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It's fine if you've been going out for a while. But it's not ok when you're asking her out for the first time. It's too impersonal.0
no don't do that. call her a couple of times talk for a lil. than call her and ask her out, don't use text for that or for having any type of a meaningful conversations. Texting is only if you just can't talk on the phone when you are out somewhere.
NO NO NO. Never ask a girl out in text message for the first time! That also goes for instant messaging, and anything internet based. Ask her in person, it shows that your brave, and that you want the relationship. Asking over text or any form of contact where it isn't in person is impersonal and flakey.
Phonecall is always better than a text if you are to nervous to do it in person but if you do ask a girl out over a text make sure you follow up with a phonecall or in person.
no , do it to her face
why by text
smile and say : Wanna go out ?
and not ; " Heyyy , wanna go out ? :D"
Gayyyyyyyy , ask her to her facee lool :)
It shows confidence !
Wich is a turn on , and if you canask her without turning red and your voice getting shaky or pitchy , its evennn better :)
practice asking her out in the mirror (it helps to practice for important speeches) but texting her the question ... nah... are you friends ? close?
I think it's fine, but if she agrees, follow up with a phonecall and suggest some details. Doing it all by text is sucky and says you're scared to talk to her.
asking someone out in person is always best
if not in person then a phone call
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