she's super nice and I've been attracted to her for a while now, and she is single. she's shown what i think are signs that she may like me; she rubbed my hair a couple of times recently when she walked past me on the court (we hang out a lot cuz we're on a tennis team), and she is watching me a lot when i play and inviting me to play with her. I really like her and i want our relationship to be more than friends, but if she actually doesn't feel that way, i dont want to lose her as a friend because things got weird between us if she said no. I can't think of a way to confess my feelings and make it so we can still be friends if it doesn't work out... Please advise
So if a guy is super shy about asking his friend to be his girlfriend, what are some ways to ask her without ruining the friendship if she says no?
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Be direct and honest and talk with her. "I value the friendship and first and foremost I don't want to lose that. My problem is, I find you extremely attractive and really want to give something more a try" "Do you think... and so on. I always prefer the direct approach0
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