So I am really in love with my best friend, but he has a girlfriend. He knows I like him and he said if she wasn't with him we would probably be dating. This is honestly killing me. It's so hard sometimes to be patient with this stuff. We hang out all the time , more than they do. I just don't know what else to do. The only thing left to do is wait for them to break up. She never tries to hang out with him and I pointed that out to him yesterday. Today he called me and said "I'm her first boyfriend she just doesn't know what to do" no that is so dumb! I really don't think that's why. She will never see him or love him like I do.
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It's ok to like him and even to have hope that they will break up eventually. But please don't be a selfish ass. Don't keep trying to ruin his relationship because that's not what best friends do. If you do that, he'll end up being mad with you and for a good reason.
Now my advice is: go live your life and let the two of them have their relationship in peace. Remain his friend and don't try to interfere in his happiness. Live and let live. And we'll see how it goes in the future. If one day he ends up with you,- that's good. If not - Oh well, we not always get what we want. Just don't dream too much to the point of forgetting to live the life you have.
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