I think it is stupid to start having so called relationships before you are 13. I mean what will you do? Your parents don't let you out, which makes you feel like an idiot in front of your friends, who all claim they are going out and yet they are fearing that you think they are the idiots who can't go out late. Even if you do manage to go out late (usually until 9pm) what are you going to do with your girlfriend/boyfriend? Take him/her out to a movie? Well yeah that's very special. Younger teenagers are too young to have to worry about having a girlfriend and going out many times a week, which can cause grades to drop when they really matter. I mean why not wait until you have lots of free time, like when you are older and are able to have proper romantic and sexual relationships with people rather than these excuses for romance, which ends up you inviting all your mates to the cinema, whilst she invites all hers.
So it really annoys me when I hear about people breaking into tears after going out for a week and feeling they won't be able to go on without him or her and then after the weekend party they pulled some other guy and girl and are now happily in a relationship that will last another week. Honestly, wait until you have some maturity and long term goal, before you start getting into something like that at age 13 is simply ridiculous!
By changing some of the new 'rules' of society that mean that young girls are sexualised very early by advertising and tv, we could stop the culture that has erupted out of the next generation after the swinging 60s. Move over Lion King, this is the new circle of life: girl aged 10 sees advertisement for some beauty product of an anorexic woman padded with inches of makeup and looks in the mirror and wonders why she can't look like that. She looks at 'fashion' magazines like OK (British celebrity magazine) and sees that the latest 'fashion' is skimpy skirts and bras. So this girl goes to school looking like a, excuse the language, tart, and ends up having boys lusting for her, at age 10! This is what is happening in this day and age, which is leading to, in later teenage years, rising abortion rates and unwanted pregnancies and most importantly underage sex, which is contributing to the rise in STDs as young teenagers are not mature enough to take responsible precautions by using a condom or by drinking before hand.
What are your thoughts?
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Hahaha I agree with everything.. Like I hate going places and seeing these 13 year olds holdimg hands when they don't even know the meaning of love.. I'm 14.. (15 in 6 days) and still don't know really what love is.. People are just trying to mature and grow up to fast.. I remmeber being 13 and I was like yeah I have a boyfriend.. but wait.. can't kiss, can't go out.. mom won't let me and who has the money.. and oh yeah can't drive, and haha yeah ill go on MySpace and I hate seeing how people are like inlove and putting "<3 11-26-09 forever" when they just started dating the other day and know nothing about eachother. society is messed up and soon there are going to be 10 year olds getting pregnant on a daily basis. Its rediculas. Kids try to grow up to fats.. and its so annoying. its cool to see a guy talk about this. I totally agree with you.2