i have a boyfriend that confessed to me that he doesn't want to be seen w. Me in public & doesn't claim me as a girlfriend when his friends asks who i am because he's embarrassed of me. But i dont get it , he always tell me that im sexy & that i look good so why would he not want to be seen w. Me, wouldn't that right there give him confidence to be proud of me/show me off? Also i dont get how he could be embarassed to be w. Me if he has pretty girl as a girlfriend & one who cares & takes pride in her appearance. Why it bothers me so much in particilar is because i see a whole bunch of couples everyday & the guy is cute or decent looking & the girl looks bad like nasty looking yet they kiss & act all affectionate in public which shows the guy is proud of his girlfriend but my own boyfriend who actually has a good looking girlfriend is ashamed & would barely even acknowledge me in public. Why is that? sorry for long story by the way.
Most Helpful Guy
The reason does not matter. the only thing that matters is that he is a douche. Dump him now. right away. Lots of guys out there for you that will treat you well.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
if he acts like that around his friends, then it's not an act. if y'all are having sex, then that could be the reason he's dating you. just to get some. if he really cared about you and thought you were sexy and all that, then he would show you off to his friends! every chance he got. and if he's denying you as a girlfriend, then that's even more reason to believe that he just wants someone to hook up with. tell him how you feel and ask him why he does those things. I'm sure you're an azming girl. tell him if he doesn't step it up, then you'll be out the door!1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE