I know it's a complicated question. He didn't realize he isn't emotionally available yet, until I said something. That's why he's been hot/cold and distant... his ex is still harassing him, trying to get him to be her friend though she screwed him over. It's only been 4 months. He said he thought we could have something good, that he didn't want to rush it, and that he wanted to continue to talk - even though I told him I was going to take a few steps back and keep my options open - that he didn't know how much time he'd need, but that he liked what we had so far. I guess I was just hoping he would have contacted me this week like he did before he pulled away. I feel like I never hear from him anymore.
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basically it might b his X's fault u know... she was harassin him u say. so he might want u actually, but his X's bossin him maybe0