I met a guy from an online dating website yesterday for coffee. Prior to that, we had been texting for about a week but didn't talk on the phone. He got there a few mins early and already ordered his coffee. When I got there, I greeted him and went to the line to get my coffee. He followed me and stood besides me as I paid for my coffee. He didn't offer at all and he was the person who asked me to meet up. What do you make of this? Should it be a concern or should I go on a second date with him? I thought it was non-chivalrous of him to not even offer to pay on a first date. Other than that, he seemed fine and we talked for about 3 hours.
Most Helpful Guy
It depends on how important him paying is to you. Coffee is cheap, he might spring for the check after a meal but think nothing of you paying for a coffee.
At this stage I'd focus more on whether you enjoy spending time with him and whether there's any chemistry, then worry about smaller details like this if you continue seeing each other.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
It was rude that he ordered his own coffee before you arrived then to just let you walk over to order your own! He should've waited for you to arrive before ordering his, then ordered both your coffees and paid for both of them. I wouldn't see him again if I were you.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE