Most Helpful Girl
Uh, i like a guy to show he's into me. I know there should always be a half way/shared thing but honestly, i was VERY into my ex, i still didn't make the effort to text. I needed to know he was into me because he didn't show it well in other ways. He never took me out on a date/bought me anything occasionally and always texted later on when he was bored so i felt very unnapreciated and point blank refused to make first contact with him because i refused to chase him. He told me to do this but, honestly, i gave him everything else, i felt so, so used. I ended up dumping him because i felt like he wasn't into me and i was correct. Fuck texting. Take her out, make the effort, chase her, buy her something nice (it DOESN'T have to be expensive) show her in different ways rather than be concerned with texting. Also, family are always more important than boyfriends. Unless you are her husband, that isn't a big issue. I think you both should organise dates, go out and after a few weeks, if the issue isn't resolved then talk to her, if it still is a problem after speaking to her then you may be better off with someone else if it bothers you that much.