We haven't talked in a couple days, and normally that's fine but the paranoid side of my brain is kicking in and I feel she's ignoring me because I may have said or done something to deserve it. I'm doing my best to keep my calm and not freak out about this. Ha ha! I don't want to screw this up, I have in the past with others, and I'm trying not to with this one.
Should I leave her be and wait for her to get back to me? Or if she did leave her phone, stop by her place and visit. This post seems so trivial, but I can't think logically about this and could use a voice outside my own.
Most Helpful Girl
Don't just show up at her house - that's too stalker-y. If you haven't talked in a couple days 'cause you haven't called or texted her, why haven't you? If you've called or texted and she hasn't answered, there are only two possible explanations: she can't ('cause she let her phone die and you'll just have to wait for her to charge it and get back to you) or she doesn't want to. You don't get to control which is the case. You put it out there that you'd like to talk to her again and now you have to wait. Ball's in her court.
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Most Helpful Guy
I think you are just being insecure. Blow it off. Dont worry about it