I have never kissed a boy, or even been close even to feel him, except for hugging. I feel like guys done think I'm beautiful enough to date or even talk to. I'm going to college next year and I feel like its going to be the same. Guys are only going to like me for my ass and not for me. Yes, I am a very pretty girl. But its like guys don't see that. I am super shy and I have major trust issues! I haven't ever had a guy walk up to me and ask me my name, EVER!
AM I NOT AS PRETTY AS GIRLS WHO JUST GIVE IT UP? Why can't I have a guy like me for me and inside of my body?
I'm a virgin so sex isn't part of what I do, I'm waiting and they seem to think its lame, so is that why they won't talk to me?
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I'm going to be totally 100% honest with you.
Firstly, it's no issue not getting intimate with a guy. Don't do it because others have done it or are pressurising you in doing so. Secondly, I assume being shy, you don't get to display much of your actual personality. If you have social issues, you need to work on that. Talk to a psychiatrist if needed.
Lastly, I think you look average, at the moment. However, you have the potential to look really beautiful. There are a number of things you can do. Your hairstyle, drop the glasses etc. I know people who look very different for what they were by just tweaking a couple of things that they have. This, along with a sense of confidence will make you feel like a whole other person. Guys will perceive you differently.1
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