When I saw him last I was about 10kg heavier. I wasn't big but a little chubby I guess
he went away for a several weeks and I didn't expect to hang out again.
Anyway it's not a huge amount of weight but I also changed my hair and I guess I look a lot better than before, but I'm the same person lol.
Before he left I was much keener than him and he didn't make much effort, that's why I stopped contacting him...
Now he's being nice and wants to see me and I don't know if I should give him a chance, I don't want to be hurt again
I don't know if he wants me now because my attitude is different, I look better or if he missed me.
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You can't really blame him for being more physically attracted to you now than then. Losing weight tells a lot about you. Not only does it look better but It also shows that you respect yourself and your appearance. I've liked girls who were a bit on the chubby side before but I wasn't physically attracted to them. It sounds shallow but it's really hard to get around it. When you kiss and hug someone, you want to be at least a little bit attracted to them physically. They don't have to be amazing but at least a little attractive. I think you should give him a chance.0