I really am not such a kids person...
But I feel pressured to say I want kids, in case I do change my mind, it's possible I would want them one day... but right now I have no desire...
I am totally willing to date a divorced dad or something. I did date a divorced dad, my friend thought I was crazy lol
I am not absolutely certain I never want kids but I can't guarantee I will DEF want them. So maybe I should date divorcess?
Most Helpful Guy
Only speaking from the standpoint of a guy who has kids... It would not bother me if you didn't want any More... it would be non-negotiable if you were unable to accept the fact that I have one. (That may have been a little outside the realm of your question.. sorry).0
Most Helpful Girl
Your primary focus should be on finding that right guy in your life. Then, all else will fall in to place. So if you never have kids with him, at least you can say you spent your life with the right man, not having kids. If kids DO happen, then at least you're with the right guy having them. I'm childfree, and usually you know this from an early age that having kids doesn't appeal to you. If you're on the fence, then you summed it up best yourself when you said you want to find a great guy. :) That great guy will understand which way you feel, and will want the best for your relationship/marriage whether it's having kids or not because you found each other.1