We've known eachother a few months.
We went out last week, on our first date.
She said she's over booked for a while.
During date she kept mentioning things we should do next time.
She texted me after saying she had a great time.
On Friday I asked her if she'd be up for going out with me to a place she mentioned, when her schedule clears up.
She said she would like to go and she will tell me as soon as she can do stuff again.
Saturday she started a conversation to thank me for a gift I gave her on Tuesday.
My question is, do you think she'll actually message me or is she just being nice? And when would be a good idea to ask her how her schedule looks, since I know she can ge distracted times
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To me it sounds like she’s being pretty sincere. Honestly when I don’t like a guy he gets a thank you before the night is over, but the last thing I’m going to do is suggest other things we can do for “next time” especially if I know there isn’t going to be a next time. I would be purposely trying to speed up the date, or at the very least keep the conversation away from the future. In your case, all you can do is wait and see if she messages you. I’d give it about 3days reach out, say good morning or something. Tell her you hope she’s having a great week so far, then wait until about Thursday before the weekend and ask her if she has any plans for the weekend.1