When we were texting today I mentioned some horror movies I really liked and he said he hadn't seen them yet but wanted to, so I asked him if he wanted to come over this weekend so we could watch them together. All of our other dates have been in public places and he is always the one to initiate, but I wanted to bring him into my comfort zone and actually have some time to spend some one-on-one time with him in a quiet place where there aren't kids running around and screaming.
Now.. he lives like 35-40 minutes away... and we don't have a television in our living room (if you can even call it that); just the kitchen and the two bedrooms, and I usually just watch movies on my laptop. We were planning on going to the movies this week down near his hometown (usually we meet each other halfway to the movies) but we might not be able to do it since he's sick.
I mean, our first kiss was pretty innocent, and I'm certainly not against progressing in that sense making out or anything but.. did I just dig myself a hole here?
Most Helpful Guy
Not necessarily. I don't think movies at a girls place means sex. I might try for it but all it means for sure it's probably some cuddling, maybe some making out and a movie. Know what your max point is and be clear with him about it. Maybe even broach it in a funny way over text and let him know what to expect.1
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Most Helpful Girl
You should relax. You didn't do anything wrong. You invited him over in order to watch some movies together, you never indicated that you're going to allow something more to happen.
I don't think he will interpret it as "she wants to have sex with me". He will probably interpret it as "she wants to spend time with me". If he tries to progress and you are not willing to continue, just tell him.1