I've been on three dates with a guy in little over a week, they are dates he has always initiated and suggested and they have been really nice and relaxed and he always let me know he had a really nice time after.
We met on Saturday evening, it ended in us kissing really passionately which was lovely :) I was going to a christening the next day and he asked me to send a picture of myself dressed before I went. I sent him it the next day, he replied "mmmm gorgeous, how was it." We text couple more times that day - then he didn't respond to my message a bit later, it wasn't a direct question or anything, I thought fair enough and didn't think much of it.
Then, two days of nothing. No text off him no initiated date. I didn't text him. I just waited it out. Tonight, two days later, he texts with "hellllllllo" - what? A one word text. I think the beginning but of dating is all about momentum and this has killed it off for me - I think it's just not right and not something I'm willing to except wether I've been on three dates or 300. I haven't been clingy, needy or anything of the sort. This has turned me off him. I think a guy who is in to you doesn't wait two days at this stage to contact you. I this felt like a boredom text. Something isn't right to me.
Please let me know what your thoughts are? Thank you xx
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You're looking for too much too fast. Two days is nothing. Especially since we guys have these complicated systems for figuring out how long we should wait to contact a girl so we don't come off as desperate.
Cut him some slack. He's probably just trying to not seem desperate or needy.