Him and I have been hooking up for the last 5 months. We first slept together and then he asked me out on a date, and another. But after we just kept Thooking up because I was away at school, so only saw him once or twice a month. But then we just kind of stopped, because I refused to kiss him when we were out drinking about a month ago because I was starting to get feelings for him and I didn't want to get hurt. He got pretty mad and said something rude to me so I walked away, and he ended up leaving after too. Two weeks later he was supposed to go to a festival with his friend and his sister and her 2 friends. His sister is my best friend and I currently live with her. So I bought a ticket last minute. I accidentally read a convo between his friend and sister. His friend was saying that he was pissed I was coming. And she asked why and he was like why do you think and she just answered he needs to grow up. why was he pissed? by the way I read this convo like two days ago so I had no idea he was mad. And during the festival, which was a day camping one, he barely talked to me and pretty much ignored me, and I also ignores him. This other girl on the trip, her ng broke up with her day 2 while we were there, so she was all over him... And they were hanging out together the whole time. What's his deal uh. Can I get him back?
Anyways neither of us really said how we felt. And Just assumed we were hooking up and should have td him how I felt then instead of just turning his kiss down. I do still have feelings for him. Can I still fix it? I recently just started talking to him again, just casually. Because it's been awkward and we've both avoided each other.
what if I just went in and kissed him? We're all going out this weekend? Would he kiss be back or would he not be into it?
Most Helpful Guy
"I accidentally read a convo between his friend and sister." Nobody on the planet believes that sentence and that is the clue here. You seem to be one of those women who is not attuned to her own feelings and gets dramatic about things. You knew that going to the festival would be a mistake but you did it anyway. He probably got tired of the drama.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
I think this guy felt rejected. When you turned him down for the kiss, you might wanted to tell him how you felt you might get hurt. Now, because of that, he feels hurt and anger... so what I recommend is talking to him. If you suddenly kiss him and he doesn't feel that way for you anymore, it will end up badly for both parties. I think kissing could be done, but since it's awkward, it will just get worse from here on.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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