Most Helpful Girl
OMG I feel for you because a month ago today, my bfs dad died of metastatic cancer and it is awful to not be able to help.
I would suggest you let her know she doesn't need to talk so just take care of her. Nothing you can say right now will be the right thing, she needs to be in her own head without you in it. when she wants you she will come to you. I had to learn the hard way that they come when they need us so ensure she is fed, loved, and looked after and wait.
My condolences xx0
Most Helpful Guy
My dad died last year.
Just pass on your condolences, let her know your there for her and anything she needs/wants from you..
And let her come to you at her own pace, everyone grieves differently.0