I met a guy 3 weeks ago and he asked me if I wanted to do coffee but I was so flat out busy that I didn't know when I'd be free
Now that things have slowed down I kind of want to suggest that coffee date. Is that too forward? Will he just assume I'm an easy bet? What are your thoughts?
We organised for Sunday night but then he said "text me over the weekend so I don't forget"
Um I don't even know what to say back to that. It comes across as sort of rude. Why would you say you might forget?
What do I say?
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Nope, not at all. I'd be down for getting asked to get a cup of coffee. I don't understand so many girls think that they shouldn't ever initiate anything. Frankly, I find it kind of upsetting. There have been many times when I didn't really have any way of initiating something, but I wish that they could have, instead, but they never did because they were waiting for the guy to so they didn't seem "easy." I don't get that. Sometimes, I need a girl to make some sort of move. If a girl that was interested in me without me knowing was a girl that I thought would never be interested in me, I wouldn't ever ask. To me, it's just instant, pointless rejection. If made some sort of positive move to me, though, I'd jump on it immediately. Just ask him for a cup of coffee. I feel like you may be over-thinking it.2