We were just hanging out two weeks ago and out of nowhere, he just kissed me and it turned into an intense makeout session. He said that he's been wanting to do that for a while because he really likes me, thinks I'm beautiful, etc. Things didn't go any further than that, and we just kept cuddling and kissing every time we were together.
I was with him again a few days ago, one thing led to another and we got to second base. After that, I started wondering where we're even going with this. I haven't felt this way about anyone since my breakup 8 months ago and I really want things to work out. I mean like we're really close and he never said anything about just wanting to hook up, nor has he ever referred to me as his "friend". I would ask him what's going on, but having "the talk", especially this early, always seems to scare off the guys I date so I'm not about to do that.
Does this seem like it's just a hookup or could it be something more? For the guys, do you treat women that you want to pursue a relationship with any different than women that you just hook up with? And is there anything at this point that I can do to avoid becoming just a friend with benefits?