Why don't guys take girls on nice dates anymore?

Maybe it's just me, but I find that guys never take girls out on dates anymore and I don't get it. Girls love to be treated special, yet not many guys do that anymore. Wtf?

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Side question: What guy would feel emasculated if a girl took them out, arranged a nice date and paid for everything? (Other than special occasions)

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Well, i was born i guess with a old heart and i did that when i courted my wife (and she also gave me the opportunity to do so). I still do it for her, why because she is worth it and she means the world to me, when i see her smile its the most amazing thing for me to see. Unfortunately i do feel sorry for a lot of girls these days who will never get to experience something like that... because there was a time when it was special to do that, i loved it

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    • That's very sweet. I wish more men were like you :-).

    • thank you, its a pleasure. me too, i wish men could learn to start doing that again for women and that women can also a little receptive when we do it, makes the whole experience that much more special

Most Helpful Girl

  • How about you treat the guy for once? It's not all about you

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    • I have.. I always make them feel special. There is only so much a girl can do without a guy feeling emasculated though.

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What Guys Said 14

  • Because gender roles aren't required anymore because several people (men and women) wanted equal treatment and some wanted it the other way around. If you want to be the "woman" of the relationship then find someone else who is into gender roles so you both agree to that kind relationship.

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  • No idea what you're talking about. I take girls out to dinner or pick them up to do night life at the museum, or go horse back riding on the beach on the weekend, etc. Always give them a ride home and if things go well, kiss goodnight. Sometimes I text a bit later to say I had fun.

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  • I'm 21 and I've never been on a date! Every time I ask out a girl, she rejects me. I'd love to be able to take a girl out to dinner than go for a walk in the park!

    If a girl gave me a chance, I'd take her out on nice dates all the time!

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  • I still take girls out on dates. And not to the movies either. :)

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  • Why don't you tell us what constitutes a nice date for you? Maybe it could give some ideas to guys? You may spark a revolution lol

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What Girls Said 3

  • Well i only date mexicans so theyre pretty much into gender roles the ones I've dated they are sweet and i do offer to pay but they always say " im the one who invited you " or " i am the guy and im happy to " in return we just have a blast all day ! I do invite and insist on paying sometimes but they dont like me to pay anyway

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  • does anyone really -not- like to be treated special?

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  • equality, that's why

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