Most Helpful Guy
Going with his brother is a very bad idea, at least if you are considering getting back with him in the future. Being with a 14 year old by itself is a bad idea, anyway. You should date someone closer to your own age, give or take a year.3
Most Helpful Girl
If you've noticed, not one seems to even want to give an answer to this question because they're too busy reacting to it! You know why? Because there's a problem with your actual question itself.
Meaning, what the heck are you doing dating a 14 year old child, and secondly, your ex's BROTHER?
By all this I mean to say: stop persuing 14year old boys, and stop perusing brothers of exes. You'll just get yourself and at least two other people in major B. S. if you keep perusing this 14 year old boy. He is not lucky to have you do this to him, the law calls this *abuse*. Do you want to be labelled an abuser, a sexual predator, and manipulator for the rest of your life because of this?
My advice: stop all contact with the younger 14 year old brother immediately. Do this cutting off as soon as possible. If you're already talking to this brother, tell him this was all a joke to you and laugh and say "see you never, hah!" This will save you from so much. You can then move forward and look forward to a wonderful life of a 17 year old who had her future ahead of her and a wonderful young man will be in your life soon after. You'll forget that all of the above ever "almost" happened.
Trust me, you'll be fine as long as you do this and go on with your sweet young life. This is the biggest favour you can do to your future self.0