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It probably has to do with the fact that many modern day black men belittle, condescend, and dedignify black women for their genetic package while they praise and uplift non-black women. It's not uncommon to find black men of this generation shaming, bashing, and practically bullying black women for physical features that their own mother and grandmother share: darker skin and more coarse hair. I'd even go so far to say that some black men are probably giving young, self-conscious black girls body dysmorphia with their constant habit of comparing and directly choosing non-black girls over them, insinuating that their features are less than. It's effed up. They're probably sick of it. They probably feel more appreciated and desired among non-black guys who don't constantly make certain comments.
I'm a Brazilian with African heritage and I have Afro-Brazilian cousins who basically look like Black women and a couple of them have shared their frustrations. It always gives me a disgusted feeling when black guys approach me saying I'm "exotic" and speaking to me like I'm some sort of trophy and other black women are just a mere 'ribbon'. Not cool.10THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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